Couples Counseling

By creating an environment in which you truly feel cared for, heard, and important, I believe your relationship has the ability to be deeply secure and satisfying.  

I want you and your partner to get to the core issues as soon as possible. My goal is to make it so you don't need me; that you and your partner now have the language and ability to catch and recover from conflict on your own.

I use all evidence-based practices to help your relationship recover from infidelity, loss of connection, lack of intimacy, and a multitude of other challenges.

If any of the following resonate, then I might be a good fit for you:

• You and your partner are constantly fighting about the same thing. 
• You've given up on your partner ever changing.
• You're not listened to.  You are constantly ignored or minimized, left feeling unimportant. 
• Your partner is always criticizing you.  It's like you can never get it right, you'll always be the "bad guy".
• You need to get loud or angry to be heard.
• You retreat when there's the potential for conflict, knowing you're just going to be attacked or end up attacking your partner. 
• Your relationship feels like a lie after the betrayal of an online affair.  You've discovered hidden accounts and passwords.
• There's a lack of intimacy.  You rarely have sex or when you do, it feels disconnected or unsatisfying.
• Cheating has left you devastated. You're not sure how to forgive or if you even can.
• You wish your partner could just get over it, but don't think they ever will.
• This relationship doesn't seem fixable.  You or your partner have threatened separation.